‘In life’ as they say ‘every good thing has come to an
end’ so here ends my long last relationship with Sajha. I have never thought that one lousy
day I would type thesewords and write a
farewell letter to dear friends.Sajha
has been very close to heart and wonderful friends I met here. I could
have made a noiseless exit but I think its unfair just to leave behind as I owe
a lot to Sajha and its family.
It seems like yesterday when I arbitrarily posted a first
post four years ago. That for sure was the art of beginning but I think greater
is the art of ending. I have always tried not to be rude to sajha members but
how hard one executes the etiquette in virtual world, eventually someone might
have been offended by my postings. That was not my intention. Take it easy my
friend.
Its not easy to bid goodbye rather it was a sturdy decision, No no no not at any
cost I am coming in other username. The fact is Im heading for internetless place for next few
months then again may be I would travel to some strange land (where it may take
2 hours just to open hotmail account). And when im back (after a year or so) I may
not appear in Sajha., thats what I am thinking now. So, I would like to thank all the kind people who were
always there to console when I needed shoulder to cry on and to cheer upwhen I had a story to tell.Then, for those whom I always bored with my
crappy travel pictures. Thank U. And of
course San bro, for creating such a wonderful SAJHA, ya Sabai Nepaliko Sajha.
Sajha changed me in many ways, and I learnt many things. The most
memorable part was when I was heartbroken after long relationship and
mercilessly dumped by GF, I could never forget the support from virtual friends, that gave me a tremendous
support. And I forgo to tell my friend
Anita Bhandari, is now about to re settle with same funny/joker husband. Just
because of suggestions she got in Sajha. I heard she is enjoying her stint in
Sajha with private nick name (she even doesnot want to disclose me her
username).
Sometimes, I wonder why cant we get all the people together
in the world that are like and then just stay together forever? Perhaps it
doesnot work. Someone alwaysleavesthen we would say goodbye. I hate good byes
but today im saying it with a heavy heart. How lucky I am to have something
that makes saying goodbye so hard.
I would remember Sajha alwaysandas
a human being I also want to be remembered –malai nabirsanu hai hahahha -- that’s
why Im writing this last post.Its funny
but I feel sad.
I don't cry because it's over but I smile because happened.
"Probably my last post in SAJHA" ... I extremely did not understand this Amazing!! You can access SAJHA from all over the world, then why are you saying these stuffs???? School chhodne sunya thiye, Office chhodne sunya thiye, Desh chhodne ni sunya thiye , but a website??? Are you coming with another nick name? I think i can not ask you why, because it is your private matter but, truly I am really curious about why are you saying these things!!! . Aja april first ta hoina, ki 1 mahina agadi nai fool banako?
Have a wonderful trip to you for wherever you are going--- enjoy life---collect lots and lottsa memories ----and write stories about rose , merigold, camellia,lily,champa and chameli hahaha we are always here to read your stories good luck and bye.
Jhilke bro (as you've ben fondly called here), I hope that this phase of mind is temporary and you do decide to come back again...I've felt the same way a gazillion times too but somehow always end up back here again. LOLs
If we're bidding adieu for real, then it has been a pleasure going through your posts and threads. Sajha will surely miss someone who had only good things and much-needed advice to share! However, life goes on and a parting some day is necessary. This is just to let you know that the Samsara appreciates the service you've provided here. All success in your endeavors.
“Don't be dismayed at goodbyes, a farewell is necessary before you can meet again and meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends.†: Richard Bach's IIlusions
If you're really serious about leaving sajha and not coming back, I will surely miss your posts. You had indeed been an amazing sajha community member. Wherever you're going and whatever it is that you're doing, all the best to you from the bottom of my heart. Live happy!
भन्न त पहिला एक चोटि पनि भनेको हो साथिले, अहिले पनि त्यस्तै होस भन्ने मेरो चाहना छ । साझा एक एकोहोरो बाटो जस्तो लाग्छ मलाइ, एक चोटि छिरेपछि निस्कन नसकिने । मलाइ व्यक्तिगत रुपमा पनि, यस्ले केहि नकारात्मक असर त पारेको छ, र अनेकौ पटक म आउदिन भनेर मनमनै भनेको छु, तर नसकिने रहेछ ।
If there won't be goodbyes there won't be reunions!! Good luck with ur endeavors broda!! and I hope u ll be back once u get time enough!! All the best! P.S.- Tyo tongba khane thaun ko sauni ko chhoru lai sodhya chha bhandinu hai!! aajkal ta hotelaa computer rakhera geet ni ghankaunchha re!! NTC ko net ni rakhyachha re qataraa gaako chhora sanga bhalakusari garna, tara bityaas 3 ghanta lagchha re yeuta jaaba eeeee - chitthi kholna!! Tehi jaana la ta hoina ghar jwai basna!!
हन यो झिल्के केटोलाइ के भ'च। जान्चु आउंदिन भनेर बौलट्टी कुरा गर्च बा।
अस्ति शनिबार दिनभरी चौतारीआँ बसेर तास खेल्दै थे यी अल्लारेहुर। झिल्केले पैसो मार्या झैं लाग्या थ्यो, फेरी आइज खेल भन्चन् र मार्या पैसो नि हारिन्च भनेर होला। केटो टाठो छ।
लौ ऐले देखिन भाङ् खा जस्तो नानाभाँती कुरा नगर बा, शिवरात्री आउन अझ तिन दिन बाँकी नै छ। तिम्रा धागाहरु जैले केही लेखुं लेखुं लाग्नि हुन्चन। अस्ति तो लम्बूको धागाँ खोक्नु खोकिया थ्यो र तिम्ले जवाफ फर्काउलाउ भन्या त्यो नि बाँकी नै छ। लौ यसरी सबै कुरो बिचैमा छोडेर जान हुन्न बा। भनेको मान बरु उता चौतारीमा तिम्ले पकाउंदै गरेको म:म हामी कसैले नि नखा'र खान दिम्ला तिम्लाई।
Frankly speaking, I have been waiting to hear at least from one Sajha alumnus that life after Sajha isn’t that bad. Because I might myself be there one day. It’s scary.
That said, when it comes to departing, generally the person who is left behind bears the most of the pain. The simple reason is that for the person who is leaving has a whole new world to excite and to experience, whereas the person left behind has the same old world to live.
So in that sense, I would say to Jhilke bro: you lucky bastard !
It was a pleasure interacting with you and mostly reading your honest thoughts and experiences in amazingly open, unpretentious and raw originality.
All exciting, challenging and fulfilling world to you !
Dance like nobody's watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth,but don’t ever let yourself give anything less than your best to everything you do; work like you are not doing it for a reward, but out of pure love, passion and meaning. कर्मण्ये वाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन !
and it begins - on Day 1 Trump will begin operations to deport millions of undocumented immigrants
Travel Document for TPS (approved)
All the Qatar ailines from Nepal canceled to USA
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